Watching the Big Game

We got invited to the game tonight with friends from church. Here we are before the game. Since we won big, it obviously was a great game!

Three from the outing

I was going to wait until Thursday for another triple shot, but couldn't wait.

I am so proud of my daughter!

This evening we went to Tech and set up my office, then went and walked around campus. There is a section of statues and one of them is of an older gentleman with a cane, sitting and resting with his dog. And Grace walks up to the man and does this...

The beginning of an era...

OK, so I stole and adapted the title from here. I also thought about naming this post "The Ways We Don't Move." Some of you will understand that.

About 3 years ago now, I told the VP of Development at ACU that if he was looking to add to his staff, let me know, I would be interested in talking to him. About 9 months ago, he let me know and we began conversations, albeit few and far between, about possibilities at ACU. In the last couple of months, these conversations grew more frequent and detailed, but still somewhat vague about specifics.

About a month ago, a friend was visiting with her mother, who happened to be looking for someone to work for her at Texas Tech in the area of scholarship stewardship. This friend, who works at LCU, just happened to be a person with whom I had done some major work on setting up some programs to do, well, scholarship stewardship. Next thing you know, Tech is calling asking me to interview for a job replicating what I had already done at LCU.

If this is starting to feel like you are standing at the crossroads watching two cars come together, it is going to get worse before it gets better, because sure enough, I interview at Tech and lo-and-behold, they offer me the job. Because I had been talking to ACU, I send a friendly email to the VP saying: "Here's what's going on. Can you give me a little more detail about where you guys are?" Within 30 minutes, he calls and wants to know if I might be free the next day to come down to Abilene and visit. Hence the pictures here. I got the call from Tech on a Tuesday on the way back from a funeral in Austin and went down to get an offer from ACU on Friday of the same week.

I have already tipped my hand on which way we went, but here is a little more proof, in case you need it.


I cannot lie - it was one of the most agonizing decisions I have had to make. I am sure the move from Abilene to Tyler was tough and Tyler to Lubbock, but I do not remember it being like this. It seemed like Jana and I were at complete opposite ends of the spectrum and changed at the exact same time as the other. In the end, it was a financial decision that was heavily impacted by my desire to finish the Ph.D. I am doing at Tech. Although ACU was generous, the offer was not for the position we had originally talked about, but rather a similar position that might work into something else down the road. Jana did not have anything lined up and there was no promise of anything that would give her the ability to continue to be with the kids or perhaps even spend more time with them than now. I would have to be in Lubbock two days a week for the next 12-15 months to establish residency, not to mention an increased travel load. The kids are getting too small of a portion of me now to ask them to give up more. Tech will help pay for the degree and working for a state university versus a small private Christian university is a benefit that makes it worth the move across town, and will continue to be a benefit in the years to come.

I am convinced this is the right decision, even as I keep wondering if I have lost my mind! We are prayerful that this is for a season and and at the right time, God will place us in the place we need to be. While we hope in many ways it is Abilene, right now, we need to be faithful in this place and I believe, because I have seen it happen, that God will make this place the right place for now and if there is another place in the future, this too will work out.

And, at the risk of totally sending my mother over the edge, I leave you with this...


Hey, when they are paying the bills, I will "Gun's Up" with the best of them!